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08Business Owner Gets Through Tragic Divorce with the Help of Meditation
Filed Under (individual accounts) by senka on 08-10-2009
Tagged Under : chakra, deep, divorce, guided, healed, healing, heartbreak, help, light, meditation, mindfulness, practice, relaxation, retreat, spiritual, sydney, techniques, visual, yoga
Scott called me one Saturday earlier this year, before I started guiding my meditation session. He was so distraught over the phone and said he had problems finding a meditation group that he could join and really needed help in that moment. I managed to calm him down and welcomed him along. When I met him he was so emotional. Only to find out that his wife had decided to divorce him with his two children after a 14 year marriage.
When he started coming, I could see that he felt like his whole world was crashing around him. After the first session of meditation, he managed to calm down and started to face the reality of the situation with logic. As he attended the second session through to the fifth, he found that he was starting to gather his strength to deal with the matter, stand his ground more and managed to get the right lawyer by his side. He had many good omens guiding him along the way. Whatever he shared with me, I tried to translate what the omens meant.
He has been coming continuously since then. After a couple of months, he found that he was ready to let her go and to move forward with his life. He loves his children dearly and reminds me of the great love my dad gave me. His emotions started to stabilize and as a result, the road he traveled became smoother for him.
One Tuesday night he shared with us that it was over and settled. We all decided to go out after meditation in celebration for him and his new life. He was so sweet, at the end of the dinner, he kneelled down before me and thanked me for all my healing, help and the great energy from the group. He said he knew if it wasn’t for the meditation, he would not have gotten through this rocky road as well as he did. His gratitude almost brought me to tears. I felt so happy that I was able to help him that much. It is these experiences that move me. The experiences money can never buy.
I encouraged Scott to still keep coming as there was another phase of healing for him to go through now. As it was, he was doing great. He was calmer, happier and very relieved it was all behind him. He took my advice, kept coming and mingled only with positive friends and influences around him. I asked him to not be in the company of anyone who was negative. Thankfully he listened, which helped me to get him where he is now.
As the weeks moved on, he really connected well with his greatness. He started to shine a lot more. Almost every night he came to meditation with a big smile on his face and shared the great opportunities that were opening up around him, with business, friends and new people he met. He admitted he has not been this happy for such a long time.
It is great that he did not fall into any depression, as most people do when you go through such a heart wrenching experience. Scott is doing great now. Still has a few ups and downs along the way, which is very normal considering he is getting use to a new way of life now. It is now his fifth month, joining our sessions once a week, he is doing amazingly well. If you met him now, you would not believe he lived through such a terrible experience, so recently. When he smiles, I can see the whole world smiles with him. He is both humorous in his nature and joyful. He is also developing new ideas to expand parts of his business. So being a lot more proactive in all parts of his life. Well done Scott, for such and amazing break through. May your story inspire others out there who are going through the same experience. To let them know that meditation can help you get through such a great change in your life.

